Thursday, July 20, 2006
Conditional Love
I've had a chance to grow up quite some time ago.
I don't know when exactly.
And I told nobody.
But I was wise overnight.
Love is probably a tricky issue.
And we all get hurt by love.
So I have to say that I do understand why most of us have reservations when it comes to love.
But probably you need to re evaluate if you are asking for a 'conditional love'.
I've been told
"Well, you didn't [insert activity]. Please show me that you love me so that I can love you."
or
"Love me before I decide to love you."
I know the pain love causes.
But if your love is conditional, you are probably not ready for the love I can offer.
Go grow up a bit more, ok?
I don't know when exactly.
And I told nobody.
But I was wise overnight.
Love is probably a tricky issue.
And we all get hurt by love.
So I have to say that I do understand why most of us have reservations when it comes to love.
But probably you need to re evaluate if you are asking for a 'conditional love'.
I've been told
"Well, you didn't [insert activity]. Please show me that you love me so that I can love you."
or
"Love me before I decide to love you."
I know the pain love causes.
But if your love is conditional, you are probably not ready for the love I can offer.
Go grow up a bit more, ok?
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