Tuesday, October 17, 2006
Amazing Friends
I had a social crisis recently.
A close friend in University has (in my opinion) stepped over the line and is taking some of us for granted.
I would very much like to point that out to her. But I know she'll block the feedback and find faults with me. So why waste that effort?
I would very much love to scream
"How dare you not prepare your work? Do you see me as an idiot who can't see that that's a last minute work?"
"While you were studying for test and having your social life, we were working really hard. Do you think that my time is worth less than yours?"
"After our discussion, I am supposed to rush my FYP report and another report. How does it help if you are late for an hour and half?"
Oh my. If only I could. I wouldn't be so constipated.
Anyway, I was telling my friend about my unhappiness.
And he said, "If she is wrong, then you have to tell her."
"You didn't spare us then, did you?"
Upon hearing that, I remember my sister once told me.
"That guy makes a good husband, not a good boyfriend."
Yes, I got a group of husbands.
These friends trace back to my secondary school days.
They never tell me how much they love me Or how they will die if they ever lose me. (yes, it's nice to hear that once in a while. haha)
But they didn't leave.
Not when I was always screaming at them.
Not when I was a tyrant.
So this post is not to talk about my unhappiness.
(too many, too much)
But to praise my group of friends so precious to me.
(since we are lovey dovey here, I get pissed because you guys are important to me ya.)
*plays*
We've come a long, long way together
Through the hard times and the good.
I have to celebrate you baby
I have to praise you like I should...
Let's Groove, guyz :)
A close friend in University has (in my opinion) stepped over the line and is taking some of us for granted.
I would very much like to point that out to her. But I know she'll block the feedback and find faults with me. So why waste that effort?
I would very much love to scream
"How dare you not prepare your work? Do you see me as an idiot who can't see that that's a last minute work?"
"While you were studying for test and having your social life, we were working really hard. Do you think that my time is worth less than yours?"
"After our discussion, I am supposed to rush my FYP report and another report. How does it help if you are late for an hour and half?"
Oh my. If only I could. I wouldn't be so constipated.
Anyway, I was telling my friend about my unhappiness.
And he said, "If she is wrong, then you have to tell her."
"You didn't spare us then, did you?"
Upon hearing that, I remember my sister once told me.
"That guy makes a good husband, not a good boyfriend."
Yes, I got a group of husbands.
These friends trace back to my secondary school days.
They never tell me how much they love me Or how they will die if they ever lose me. (yes, it's nice to hear that once in a while. haha)
But they didn't leave.
Not when I was always screaming at them.
Not when I was a tyrant.
So this post is not to talk about my unhappiness.
(too many, too much)
But to praise my group of friends so precious to me.
(since we are lovey dovey here, I get pissed because you guys are important to me ya.)
*plays*
We've come a long, long way together
Through the hard times and the good.
I have to celebrate you baby
I have to praise you like I should...
Let's Groove, guyz :)
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