Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Losing
Later, I found out that there are many reasons why we lose.
Sometimes we lose because we are afraid of winning. The pressure of where the victory will lead us to.
So we stay at the same spot losing comfortably.
Sometimes we lose because the benefits of losing outweighs the benefits of winning.
I have friends who refuses to pick themselves up, just for the few warm messages and short lived concerns.
I think whatever the reasons, they are sick and destructive.
There must be a concrete reason for everything. Wasting your time over something that is not there, is just wasting your time.
There are no romantic reasons to that.
Of course, it could be that we are just too lousy and stupid sometimes.
But I hope none of us fails because of this.
Because we can all learn from our mistakes.
Sometimes we lose because we are afraid of winning. The pressure of where the victory will lead us to.
So we stay at the same spot losing comfortably.
Sometimes we lose because the benefits of losing outweighs the benefits of winning.
I have friends who refuses to pick themselves up, just for the few warm messages and short lived concerns.
I think whatever the reasons, they are sick and destructive.
There must be a concrete reason for everything. Wasting your time over something that is not there, is just wasting your time.
There are no romantic reasons to that.
Of course, it could be that we are just too lousy and stupid sometimes.
But I hope none of us fails because of this.
Because we can all learn from our mistakes.
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